Two people have a relationship when the perceived behaviors of one significantly affect the wholistic health, functioning, and growth of the other – in someone’s opinion. Significantly is a subjective judgment.
Sometimes relationships can seem like a lot of work until you sit back and realize just how much you’ve been given. A thriving, healthy relationship requires some give and take, and is absolutely within your reach if you and your partner are willing to do a bit of work. If you and your partner are right for each other, all the work will definitely be worth it in the long run.
The 12 signs of healthy relationship include :-
1) You trust each other :-
A healthy relationship is formed of trust and love . It is very necessary for a couple to trust each other . No relation can be successful without trust.
2) You care for each other :-
Caring for each other is very important in a relation . Caring for a person shows the love of a person to the other. Many breakups happen today because of not showing love.
3) You fight with each other :-
Fighting with eachother is a sign of love too . A person who is very close keeps on fighting with you . These fights are pure and many of the time the fights are because he/she cares for you and is concern about you.
4) You both laugh together :-
This is the clearest sign that you both are in a very healthy relationship . Laughing together is because you both are very happy together . And you love to spend time together.
5) You admit your mistakes :-
If you have done something really wrong or have hurted someone . You admit your mistake! And apologise immediately. Because you care for the person and you want that person to know everything about you . Even if you have done something really very wrong !
6) You forgive each other :-
Forgiving each others mistake is a very good sign . When you forgive each other for whatever he/ she has done , even if it is a big mistake. You still see to it that it is been forgiven and you both live happily again .
7) You give each other the perfect space :-
Every relation needs a space ! Speaking all day and all night wont workout . You need to give little time to your partner for his / her own needs too . This may also include not peeping into his stuff all the time like checking phone or any social networking site.Letting do whatever he/she wishes too.
8) You support each other :-
Even at the time of some crisis . You support each other and see to it that the problem is solved as early as possible. You don’t taunt or dismotivate your partner at such times.
9) You talk openly :-
You talk everything very clear . Things you like and dislike about yourself , about your partner or about the world. You are very free to talk everything because you know these talks will never go out !
10) You feel that each of you is doing enough :-
Feeling like you’re carrying your whole relationship by yourself and that your partner isn’t doing enough it can create a lot of friction. It’s important that both you and your partner feel like the work load (or financial load if you’re at that point) is split evenly between the two of you.
11) You respect each other :-
Respect comes first in a relationship . If your partner doesn’t respects you now ! How will he respect you after marriage ? Respecting each other is very important .
12) You feel the love touch :-
This is the most important sign . You should feel the touch of love . You should make your partner feel that “You are the only one ” . You should make him/her feel the touch . To show that love is very beautiful and your lucky to have a lover !
A relationship of love is based on care,purity, honesty and trust. When you love someone you wish to tell him or her everything . Healthy relations make people happier and ease stress, are realistic and flexible ,mean sharing and talking ,include self-care. And use fair fighting techniques.
Love is the greatest gift we can ever hope to give or receive. Love is the one thing that can overcome so many of the difficult times that we are faced with in life. Love is so powerful – it can turn frowns into smiles. It can help mend the most broken heart. It can even turn all of the ugliness in the world into the most beautiful portrait we could ever have the pleasure to behold.
Love causes less stress, less heartache, less misunderstandings, less of just about everything negative. Love does reap rewards – happiness, health, joy, peace, and so much more that’s positive. Isn’t that what we want most for this world of ours? We can at least try being in love , right? Think about it…