Love for parents, partners, children, country, neighbour, God and so on all have different qualities. Each has its variants – blind, one-sided, tragic, steadfast, fickle, reciprocated, misguided, unconditional. At its best, however, all love is a kind a passionate commitment that we nurture and develop, even though it usually arrives in our lives unbidden. That’s why it is more than just a powerful feeling. Without the commitment, it is mere infatuation. Without the passion, it is mere dedication. Without nurturing, even the best can wither and die.
Love is a very beautiful feeling . It is full of emotions . Are you confused that is he really in love with you ? or he is just playing ? everyone is in todays time . Because time has changed real love is found rare .
These signs will tell if you if he is really in love ? :-
1) Interested in you :-
If he loves you, he will be intrested to know how you are from inside as well as outside . How do you react in the surrounding ? In given situations and with different people.
2) He creates a perfect eye contact :-
Eye contact is very necessary in love . Eye contact gives a romantic feeling and it is a sign of true love and care.
3) He calls you without reasons :-
He calls you up without reasons and then starts speaking nonsense . Just because he wants to hear your voice and may be want to say that he loves you alot .
4) He loves to spend time with you :-
Communication is very necessary in a relationship. He plans dates in different places , he loves to spend time with you . Wherever it is possible.
5) Gets jealous :-
He just feels insecure when you speak to some guy . May be a guy he doesnt likes or may be a friend who is trying to get more close to you .
6) Makes you laugh :-
He makes you laugh all the time . Laughing is a sign of love . When he loves you allot he wants to make you happy all the time . Your smile means alot to him .
7) Introduces you to his family and friends :-
He loves you so much and find you so lovely that he wants you to meet his family and friend . He wants you to be close to them too .
8) He compromises too :-
When you both don’t agree to the same thing and both have different choices . For example going to different restraunts . He also compromises and listens to you too .
9) He acts protective :-
He acts protective if someone is troubling , teasing or flirting with you. Or with someone who is making you uncomfortable . He tries his best to protect you .
10) He cant stay mad of you :-
When you both have a fight! He cares about you when you cry and calms out his anger . And then again makes you laugh .
11) He plans for the future :-
He suddenly calls you up and tells you how life is going to be in the future. How will they stay together ahead with love.
12) Small touches :-
He prefers to hug you tight.! He is in love with your eyes , nose and ears .
13) He keep no secrets :-
He shares everything with you. Even if he did something wrong he sees to it , that he should tell you about it.
14) He usually tells ” I Love You” :-
He keeps on telling you I love you . Saying I love you is the clearest sign that he likes you allot and loves you alot!
Love is a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes that ranges from interpersonal affection to pleasure . It can refer to an emotion of a strong attraction and personal attachment. It can also be a virtue representing human kindness, compassion, and affection”the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another”. Love is more easily experienced than defined. Love’s the one thing that can never hurt anyone, although it may cost dearly. The paradox of love is that it is supremely free yet attaches us with bonds stronger than death. It cannot be bought or sold; there is nothing it cannot face; love is life’s greatest blessing.
True love is faithful, pure, trustworthy, and responsible. True love will be created by two partners who make a commitment and keep that commitment. If one partner does not keep their commitment and checks out of the relationship whether he (or she) checks out weekly, monthly, or every 5 years, then it is simply not true love. True love is found very rare . In today’s generation love isn’t given more value I.e People don’t have the value of love . It is like a compulsion for the teens to go in a relationship without checking the comfort zone and then they breakup ! It’s a new trend.But finding your lover is very hard! You are very lucky if you have true love in your life.