Are you in Love?

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Love, The most strong word used very easily these days. Love is not just an intimate relationship that two people share but it is a lot more than that. Love is a feeling a wonderful people which you feel deep inside your heart. The feeling that makes you feel satisfied and content in every phase of life. The feeling that makes you smile no matter how sad and upset you are deep within. The feeling in which you blindly trusts that one person and tell him everything about yourself including the things you might be ashamed of. It is the feeling of mutual respect, honesty, helping each other and most of all reaching out to your dreams together. After all, what can be a better feeling than to have someone with whom you can share not just your sadness but happiness too? Love is that unconditional commitment to an imperfect person which is not just a strong feeling but a decision, a judgment, and a promise.

But the question here is, are you in love? How do you even know that its love?

But the question here is, are you in love? How do you even know that it’s love?
Love is a process it happens over a period of time, and the journey from initial attraction to deep romantic love is a predictable course that depends on many different factors. Love is an intense feeling of affection towards the other person. Its a profound and caring attraction that forms an emotional attachment.

On the flip side, lust is a strong desire of nature that is based on physical attraction. Lust can transform into deep romantic love, but it takes time.

Two individuals will transform their lust into love when they get to see the strengths and weaknesses of an individual and get past the whole ‘fantasy level’.

Facts suggest that there are three stages of falling in love.

Stage 1. LUST

Lust is the first stage of falling in love. It is driven by the desires due to the hormonal changes in the body. According to experts, this stage may begin immediately and can last up to two years.

Are you focused on the physical appearance of the object of your desire?
Is there a strong desire to have long conversations?
Do you prefer to keep your relationship on a fantasy level and not discuss the real things?

If the answer to these questions is a Yes, then you are in the stage of lust and maybe in the process of love.

Stage 2. Attraction

This is the “love-struck” phase. In this stage you day-dream about that person all the time. You lose sleep and appetite. You skip a beat whenever you see that person and it keeps your heart-racing. This might make you feel insane. You like to be around that person and like to talk to him/her all day long. This stage is about liking everything about that other person and taking interest in what he/she does.

Stage 3. Deep Love and Attachment

When the couple go beyond the courting phase and get to know each other completely including their strengths and weaknesses and still choose to accept and love each other for who they are. Socrates was correct when he said,”when there is love there is madness.”

You feel compelled to be loyal, you compromise on things you never thought you could.
There is a sense of peace and ease when you think about him. A smile comes on your face when his thought crosses your mind.

Every part of this person enamors you. You feel proud to be with him. He becomes a part of you and you cant stop talking about anything but him. You can closely feel him everywhere, you can smell him and can recognize his voice from a distance. You might argue and fight over small issues but at the end you know that he is there. You plan your future together and ARE YOU IN LOVE?

Love, The most strong word used very easily these days. Love is not just an intimate relationship that two people share but it is a lot more than that. Love is a feeling a wonderful people which you feel deep inside your heart. The feeling that makes you feel satisfied and content in every phase of life. The feeling that makes you smile no matter how sad and upset you are deep within. The feeling in which you blindly trusts that one person and tell him everything about yourself including the things you might be ashamed of. It is the feeling of mutual respect, honestly, helping each other and most of all reaching out to your dreams together. Afterall, what can be a better feeling than to have someone with whom you can share not just your sadness but happiness too. Love is that unconditional commitment to an imperfect person which is not just a strong feeling but a decision, a judgment and a promise.

But the question here is that, are you in love? How do you even know that its love?
Love is a process it happens over a period of time, and the journey from initial attraction to deep romantic love is a predictable course that depends on many different factors. Love is an intense feeling of affection towards the other person. Its a profound and caring attraction that forms an emotional attachment.

On the flip side, lust is a strong desire of nature that is based on physical attraction. Lust can transform into deep romantic love, but it takes time.

Two individuals will transform their lust into love when they get to see the strengths and weaknesses of an individual and get past the whole ‘fantasy level’.

Facts suggest that there are three stages to falling in love.

Stage 1. LUST

Lust is the first stage of falling in love. It is driven by the desires due to the hormonal changes in the body. According to experts, this stage may begin immediately and can lasts upto two years.

Are you focussed on the physical appearance of the object of your desire?
Is there a strong desire to have love than deep long conversations?
Do you prefer to keep your relationship on a fantasy level and not discuss the real things?

If the answer to these questions is a Yes, then you are in the stage of lust and maybe in the process of love.

Stage 2. Attraction

This is the “love-struck” phase. In this stage you day-dream about that person all the time. You lose sleep and appetite. You skip a beat whenever you see that person and it keeps your heart-racing. This might make you feel insane. You like to be around that person and like to talk to him/her all day long. This stages is about liking everything about that other person and taking interest in what he/she does.

Stage 3. Deep Love and Attachment

When the couple go beyond the courting phase and get to know each other completely including their strengths and weaknesses and still choose to accept and love each other for who they are. Socrates was correct when he said,”when there is love there is madness.”
A true romantic love is not just an emotion its a craving. There is a strong emotional craving, the love drive.

You feel compelled to be loyal,you compromise on things you never thought you could.
There is a sense of peace and ease when you think about him. A smile comes on your face when his thought crosses your mind.

Every part of this person enamors you. You feel proud to be with him. He becomes a part of you and you cant stop talking about anything but him. You can closely feel him everywhere, you can smell him and can recognize his voice from a distance. You might argue and fight over small issues but at the end you know that he is there. You plan your future together and don’t see a life without him. Love is that untainted and pure feeling that u feel around him. That different feeling, a special feeling, feeling of being loved..feeling to give love. That sense of completeness when you are with him. His routes become your way and his way becomes your destination.

If you are at this stage my friend, You are surely in love. Your life will look beautiful and perfect. You could not ask for anything else but him. You look upto him and he looks upto you. Now, its the time for you to balance between the two; committed love and security and excitement, continuity and novelty, safety and adventure, comfort and passion. The happiest couples are the ones that can maintain a balance between love and lust. If the chemistry is right,it will transform into romantic love!

Don’t rush it; let it unfold naturally. The more you bring love, honesty, passion and romance into your relationship, the longer and stronger your relationship will last.You see a life without him. Love is that untainted and pure feeling that u feel around him. That different feeling, a special feeling, feeling of being loved..feeling to give love. That sense of completeness when you are with him. His routes become your way and his way becomes your destination.

If you are at this stage my friend, You are surely in love. Your life will look beautiful and perfect. You could not ask for anything else but him. You look up to him and he looks up to you. Now, its the time for you to balance between the two; committed love and security and excitement, continuity and novelty, safety and adventure, comfort and passion. The happiest couples are the ones that can maintain a balance between love and lust. If the chemistry is right,it will transorm into romantic love!Dont rush it; let it unfold naturally. The more you bring

Don’t rush it; let it unfold naturally. The more you bring love, honesty, passion and romance into your relationship, the longer and stronger your relationship will last.

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